Comments on: “Character Revealed” by Patricia Cavanaugh

By: Patricia Cavanaugh

Patricia Cavanaugh — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 22:51:31 +0000

Perry,
Thank you for your thoughtful comment and the wonderful William James quote. I believe you are referring to the beginning of my article when I write about “yield to who we really are.” when you speak of surrender. It is the surrender to the authentic Self that brings about the regenerative movement that James is referring to. It is this movement that we seek to foster in our 3rd Act workshops and coaching.

By: Perry Carrison

Perry Carrison — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 20:57:16 +0000

The way to success is by surrender; passivity, not activity.
Relaxation, not intentness, should be now the rule.
Give up the feeling of responsibility, let go your hold,
Resign the care of your destiny to higher powers,
Be genuinely indifferent as to what becomes of it all…

Seems like William James would jump in with you and Hillman:
I’m totally with you in spirit, if not practice!!!

It is but the giving your private convulsive self a rest,
And finding that a greater Self is there.
The results, slow or sudden, or great or small,
Of the combined optimism and expectancy,
The regenerative phenomena which ensue on the abandonment of effort,Remain firm facts of Human Nature
—–William James

By: Debbie Swinarski

Debbie Swinarski — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 23:04:50 +0000

This really resonated with me. My present reality is somewhat challenged and I have been really looking inward for guidance. This really validated what I have been thinking. Thank you!

By: kathleen quinn

kathleen quinn — Sun, 13 Jun 2010 18:44:25 +0000

Beautifully written article that helps me relate to my own experience at age 62. As I learn to accept what is, while simultaneously paying attention to all the synchronisities around me, I am directed to my next steps in a life that expands more and more every day. Life in my 3rd chapter is quite amazing and wonderful. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Patricia.

By: susan pierpoint

susan pierpoint — Fri, 11 Jun 2010 22:59:10 +0000

This is amazing and beautiful. You’ve put into words the very things I’m looking for in this chapter of my life. Susan